Ali Eaves, the Girl Next Door, takes all your questions on women, love, and lust.

I found out my wife watches porn. Why? I’m always up for sex.
—Daryl from Peoria, Illinois

Well, this is a first: A guy wondering why someone watches porn.

Don’t take it personally, Daryl. She’s probably just tired and looking for a beeline to orgasm.

Solo sex lets her be selfish: She doesn’t have to worry about reciprocating oral or climbing on top or explaining that her sweet spot is 4 millimeters north of where you’re focusing. She can just lay back and let Tumblr and her vibrator do the work.

As long as you two are still having sex with each other, I wouldn’t worry that she takes matters into her own hands every now and then. (If you’re not having as much sex as you’d like, check out 25 Ways to Fix a Sexless Marriage.)

Her X-rated habit may even be good for your relationship: New Canadian research finds that some couples who watch porn end up experimenting more in the bedroom.

If you’re that sore about being excluded from the occasional party, try gently ribbing her about her dirty browser history. Say something like, “Threesomes, eh?” with a knowing wink.

Then let her know that you’re always game to take over for the Magic Wand.

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