CORY, BRENTWOOD, CA asked:
Is there an easy way to try prostate massage as a sex booster?
Yes, and no latex gloves needed. Your partner can externally stimulate your prostate gland by massaging your perineum, the spot between your testicles and anus, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., the author of Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots. “In tantra, this area is known as the ‘sacred gate’ because of the deeper, more total-body orgasm it invites. It also helps you last longer in bed.” Ready for some fun? Don’t just point at your perineum and say “Rub it.
” Start in missionary position, and then angle your body 30 degrees so your butt is tilted toward her lap and she can reach around more easily. “Have her massage the area gently with her fingers your prostate will feel like a nut—and then shift to a firmer, steadier, up-and-down or circular motion. Whatever feels best to you,” says Fulbright. If at first you feel the urge to urinate, don’t freak out—be patient and the sensation will transition from “Oh, no” to “Oh yeah!”